Have him lie on his back.
Climb on top with one leg on either side of his torso. It’s usually
better to focus more on rocking your body back and forth rather than
trying to bob up and down. You can also try grinding your pelvis in slow
circles or in a figure-eight motion.
Why it works: Being on top is
the most popular position for a lot of women because it gives you
complete control over the pace, angle, depth, and level of stimulation.
There are a ton of fun variations of this position, making it very
versatile. It’s not one of the more intense positions for men, so your
partner may be able to last a lot longer than usual, giving you more
time to reach your peak.
Variations: Turn around so that you’re facing his feet. This position is called Reverse Cowgirl.
It offers a pretty spectacular view for him, and gives you a different
angle to work with. You can also try asking him to prop his body up a
bit, or even sit all the way up. The changing position of his abdominal
muscles will give you a variety of surfaces to grind against, and the
different angles of his penis will stimulate all kinds of spots inside
of you. Try leaning back slightly, which will increase the stimulation
of your G-spot. You can also very easily reach down to stroke your
clitoris, or ask him to touch it for you. (Since many women can’t orgasm
through penetration alone, it’s always good to remember to give yourself a hand!)
Have him lie on his back.
Climb on top with one leg on either side of his torso. It’s usually
better to focus more on rocking your body back and forth rather than
trying to bob up and down. You can also try grinding your pelvis in slow
circles or in a figure-eight motion.
Why it works: Being on top is
the most popular position for a lot of women because it gives you
complete control over the pace, angle, depth, and level of stimulation.
There are a ton of fun variations of this position, making it very
versatile. It’s not one of the more intense positions for men, so your
partner may be able to last a lot longer than usual, giving you more
time to reach your peak.
Variations: Turn around so that you’re facing his feet. This position is called Reverse Cowgirl.
It offers a pretty spectacular view for him, and gives you a different
angle to work with. You can also try asking him to prop his body up a
bit, or even sit all the way up. The changing position of his abdominal
muscles will give you a variety of surfaces to grind against, and the
different angles of his penis will stimulate all kinds of spots inside
of you. Try leaning back slightly, which will increase the stimulation
of your G-spot. You can also very easily reach down to stroke your
clitoris, or ask him to touch it for you. (Since many women can’t orgasm
through penetration alone, it’s always good to remember to give yourself a hand!)